Okay, so im feeling very slack on DP, as i have recently...in the 2nd trimester, have had little or no sex drive.

They say you usually get ur libido back at about 5 months, however, i feel like mine has done the complete opposite.

I cant stand my partner fussing over me, or kissing or hugging me.
I get angry when he tries to initiate sex...

When we do have sex, i lay there like a starfish, and winge about the cramps and bloating i have down there.

I never want to do any of the work, and expect him to do it....
And after ten minutes, i start winging that hes taking too long...

Does this sound terrible...??

Also, when it comes to oral, I now hate it, and never used to mind it before i was pregnant.
Sorry if this is TMI, but i nearly gag if he even puts it anywhere near my mouth...

I feel useless, and feel scared he will go elsewhere for the sex he desires (even though he loves me and i trust him, the worry is still in my mind)

To make it worse...he now comes to me and asks...'honey, can we have sex tonight'... He feels he has to ask, and make an appointment in advance....

This made me realise how bad it must be...the poor bugger has to ask in advance for it now.... I feel terrible....

I told him, im sorry that im not a casanova anymore, and he says its fine, and that he understands....but i still worry that he thinks...'everything has changed now'....