Maybe you feel that way with her because she just assumes she can touch you and not ask!! I really hate it. My cousin does it all the time but doesn't just rub, she pokes and prods it trying to get bubba to move and it's really annoying. People at work and friends also invite themselves to rub my belly! My bubba is clever and he always "goes to sleep" when someone else wants to touch and then everyone's like "oh why isn't he moving!!" My Mum, sister and DP are the only ones that have seen and felt him move - he really is choosy! I just don't feel comfortable with people touching my belly that's all