Lol I could teach you all a check drill and a loud "GET BACK" - well it works with offenders....

No truly I hated it too. With my first it happened way more, especially with my mega offensive MIL, but like someone mentioned, I quickly learned to say "Please don't do that" but quietly and only to them so they weren't embarrassed and it didn't cause a confrontation.

This time I haven't even really had any trouble. The girls I work with always ask, and the blokes...well they're funny creatures and always ask. I'm kind of touched by them - that hardened coppers can be so excited by it.