thankyou ladies.
i think i'll get the extender for my bra. as for underwires, i dont feel...comfterable with out them. so thats why i'd like to get ones to sleep in and slowly get used to it. as for BF, i know you shouldnt wear underwires becuase it can cause blockages in milk ducts (so a ladie i work with told me..)

i understand getting -re sized and i will in about 3 weeks becuase i'm half way though and need to save some money for the BF bras. the ones i bought wherent "nasty" cheap. they're really good, my mother looked at them (she's very fussy with this kind of thing) and said they where good with ALOT of support...but i will go and have another look in 3 weeks once i have some money...