Pandora - I must admit that Neil has been pretty good considering I get up a few times a night and I am ALWAYS complaining. I don't have another little one to worry about either so I am just a big sook really.
Sounds like James needs to sleep on the couch or something until he realises just how good he has it! You poor sausage! It's bad enough that you are feeling crappy without being made to feel guilty too!
You are right, sometimes men just don't think! I am waiting for mine to say something insensitive. So far, so good!