Hey sweets...
chin up. It sounds like your having it tough, but just think of the beautiful miracle inside you. You have a gorgeous little daughter, and im certain that she will be fine, and shes probably so excited on meeting you.
It sounds like you have a lovely, supportive grandmother, and thats wonderful to have!!!

In regard to your husband, I say chin-up, and take things slow. It will all work out for the best, and remember, the most important thing right now, is making sure that little miracle inside you is healthy and safe.

Try not to stress out too much, as it will only do you more worse than good....

lots of hugs and all the best with everything xx