I have just gone for my second time and got the extended bikini wax done (first time I just had a normal bikini wax, but it wasn't enough for me) and it really isn't as bad as I thought, wear loose knickers though, the therapist asked that I pull one side of the knickers across (she then waxes the bikini and bottom area) and then the other side. Was ouchy but booked another in just before delivery so it can't be that bad.