We had alot of pressure NOT to find out, mainly from DHs side. We didn't find out with DS, and despite all the anticipation and surprise, it really wasn't much of a surprise for me (like, it was going to be a boy or a girl right? There are not that many other options )
So this time I was definite that I wanted to know. I was a little bit disappointed at first, but then I would have been disappointed (slightly) either way, as whatever we got meant we wouldn't have the other (does that make sense?). Now I am so happy we found out, it really does help me bond with him and prepare DS for a baby brother as he is adament he is having a sister.
All the best with whatever you decide. Either way it is a surprise, one you just get earlier, and the other you get when you have the baby!
I found out for all three of my pregnany's and DH didn't know for any of them. I like to know what is going on and curiosity gets the better of me, I also read the last few pages of a book before I finish one. I am impatient
I also like to be super organised and have everything ready to go.. In saying that I won't be finding out with my next one. Just for that extra surprise!
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