Awesome thread by the way!

We had alot of pressure NOT to find out, mainly from DHs side. We didn't find out with DS, and despite all the anticipation and surprise, it really wasn't much of a surprise for me (like, it was going to be a boy or a girl right? There are not that many other options )

So this time I was definite that I wanted to know. I was a little bit disappointed at first, but then I would have been disappointed (slightly) either way, as whatever we got meant we wouldn't have the other (does that make sense?). Now I am so happy we found out, it really does help me bond with him and prepare DS for a baby brother as he is adament he is having a sister.

All the best with whatever you decide. Either way it is a surprise, one you just get earlier, and the other you get when you have the baby!