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  1. #1
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    Jan 2008
    I live in a small country town in NSW called Hay. Very remote and very quiet lol
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    I am the same, with my first pregnancy i couldn't get enough and i had a son, this time ( nearly 11 years on lol) i can take it or leave it, but i prefer not to sometimes it feels like a household chore, it's something you are trying to avoid but know it has to be done lol.

  2. #2
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    Dec 2006
    Gippsland Vic
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    I think it's called tired, well more than tired, exhausted!!!!
    When you are pregnant with the first you have so much more time to yourself, if you need a sleep you have one, if you need to get out of the house you go etc there are no worries about little ones sleeping through or being interruptted during. I think it declines more as you have less time, sometimes I don't even have time for myself let alone someone else!!!! Good when you have an understanding DH, and great you are prepared to reward him for his patience. Quality over quantity, I say.

  3. #3
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    Nov 2006
    over the blue mountains and then some...
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    LOL - This is something that my DH is confused about. All of his mates keep saying to him that he must be getting 'it' heaps and that their wives wouldn't leave them alone throughout the entire pregnancy... poor DH has been lucky to get a look in throughout the whole thing - I am so not interested!!

    To be fair though we were pretty active before PG... DH is now starting to lament the onset of the real "drought" seeing as I only have 3 weeks to go! hee hee

  4. #4
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    Oct 2007
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    sometimes it feels like a household chore, it's something you are trying to avoid but know it has to be done lol.
    YEP!!!!

    BD- Thankyou for your reply, I did work anywhere from 8-14 hrs YEP 14 hr days when I was PG with DD 5 days a week so I was pretty tired back then aswell but I guess at least Igot days off etc this time I dont.

    Michelle- Hehe yeah all DH's friends are saying the same to him, I think he just nods, smiles and lets them think he is getting al;ot of action

    Goodluck in the upcoming weeks!

  5. #5
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    Sep 2005
    South Coast NSW
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    i too have a lack of drive, DF feels really special when im in the mood, But 9 times out of 10 im knocking him back... I too feel sorry for him.
    I think its coz i have 2 boys to look after and im trying to organise a wedding!!

  6. #6
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    Jul 2007
    melb
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    This is my first baby and we have had sex probably 4 or 5 times in 24 weeks and 5 days!!!

    so i think it is just luck of the draw!! Before preg i wanted it all the time now i couldnt care less!

    Dh seems to have lost his also maybe it has to do with ttc for 12 months and it became a chore!

  7. #7
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    Sep 2006
    Sydney
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    OMG lindsay hun. Dont worry about his needs at the moment...lol... We are pg and we are either horn bags or fridget. If we have nice men, which we do they will understand. I know my DH does. I wont say how many times we have done it... .lol

    I was different with DS but nope nothing with this one. Im sure he understands...

    See ya tomorrow hun