Hi - yes be kind to yourself (I Hear an echo that someone said that to me around the same time .....) with two kids already - you forget how much you actually do. First time you can spend hours relaxing, strolling, indulging really - then with one, let alone two, time is scarce.

Try some acupuncture perhaps for energy and keeping everything flowing and unblocked??? Worked in making me feel more human again ....