thanks Mel and Relle, I am so glad you guys didn't say "you should be over that by now", I will cry if someone else says that to me.

I might call him Monday, I just don't want to keep calling which is silly I know.

It is just such abnormal tiredness and I thought it only happened at the end. I am almost in tears tonight I feel so bad, and I had a big sleep last night too. Hopefully he can help me out.