Hi girls, My ob has called me back and as always has put me at ease! He said that most people don't feel it till now ( me in the last two) and that those that do feel it around the 14 week mark do go through a stage of not feeling it at all. I know all of you loveley ladies have said that to me, but I must admit that having him confirm that, when he deals with this stuff day in and day out is reassuring.

I said to him that 3rd time round it should be getting easier/less stressful but it is getting worse and he agreed!

By the way, just after speaking with him I was giving DS 2 his bottle and he was sitting on me and I felt the baby move, obviously telling it's big brother to get off!