why does your fiance have to be in the UK to settle the divorce? surely he can do it over the phone, or through some other means of communication??

if you have time to suss it out, maybe you get some sort of student (like student midwife or doula -like nai said), someone who needs the work experience?

dunno if it may be stepping over the line or not but what about your ex? he seems to be very helpful and supportive in other ways but i dunno if it might be a bit too wierd for you all.

other than that i am not sure. what if you speak to a GP or other health care professional for advice or services that may be open to you? good luck.