It's frustrating when ppl share their own negativity and insecurity with us.
This is my firsdt baby but I am aiming for a natural birth centre birth and just about everyone I tell says the same thing.... in fact a colleague made a bet with me yesterday that I wouldn't be able to do it without drugs.
don't let them get to you honey i think our state of mind directly affects our success. we're made for this and we'll be fine!