Does he come to your doc appointments? If not, I would be trying to get him to come to one at some stage, and while he is there and in ear shot mention to your doc that you are unusually exhausted, moreso than with your first pg, and that apart from running around all day doing long lists of stuff and stressing out, not sleeping etc you have been trying to rest Your doc will more than likely tell you off, tell you you shouldn't be doing half the things you are doing and that you need to take it easy for your sake and bubs...and hubby might get the picture. Cause really...although pregnancy is not always a blast, you should be taking it easy and from here on in should be starting to prepare for the lead up of your bub and not jeopardize your own health (and bubs) by getting run down and physically/emotionally drained.