When I was pg with my twins I felt like a freak show near the end. I was admitted a week before I had them for pre eclampsia. The Thursday before the obs came in and said right you are going to meet your bubbbas next Tuesday. I explained to him how I felt like the bearded women and he wrote at the front of my file that under no circumstances was anyone to discuss my c section including the day in front of visitors. And believe me my visitors tried!! They would try and sneak a look at the notes when the staff came in and one cousin saw the note at the front page and went all read in the face. Hehe I think he got the message.

With ds3 was having contractions for two weeks before ds3 arrived I was even admitted over night but the only people the new where the ones that would never show up at the hospital during labour. My mum was threatening to coming and wait .... No thanks!

Unplug the phone. Don't answer the door. And if all else fails tell them to mind their own F$&@ing business!