I cannot decided if I want to have a baby shower or not. Part of me says yes do it, but the other part of me isn't really that into it.

I don't have a lot of girlfriends either so it would mostly be family, but I have always had this thing about baby showers . . . . . that people will think I am only having one for the presents, which is not true at all.

So my question is did you or are you having one?