I started to write one, got way too confused, and gave up!

I ended up worrying about it, so next time I saw my OB I explained how stressed I was about it all, and he spent 15 mins with me talking over the options and making notes as to how I felt about cartain things.......that ended up being my birth plan.

Maybe have a chat with your OB about it all?

As for getting ready for the baby, as long as they have somewhere peaceful to sleep, all the rest can be done in moments, so DON"T STRESS!