thread: bub on cervix *TMI* pls don't judge

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
    Hork-Bajir Valley
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    Michel Odent has written some interesting things on this topic, the most recent one I read being his book "the functions of the orgasm". He theorises that sexual pleasure during pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding is fairly common but not spoken about because of the social stigma of connection sexual pleasure with childbearing. I say enjoy it
    see thats why I was hessitant to post it... because of the whole ...i'm getting off on my baby sort of thing smakes me feel unsure. I obviously want to embrace it though, like others have said, better than the alternative but it's still making me uneasy... like I have to make the conscious decision to go with it rather than avoid/ignore/fight it (like it is currently still an effort as such to give into it and enjoy it, rather than than feel ashamed)

  2. #2

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
    8,425

    You're not getting off on your baby. You're having a physiological response. It's natural and normal. Don't feel ashamed.

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    I understand that T. but really, I think we're all jealous
    I hope this means you'll have a fabulous birth!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    1,714

    Gotta admit I'm a teensy bit jealous wish it was that easy for me :P