LOL! I feel so much better now! I too do exactly the same thing, let the machine get it - we have caller id as well, so I will have a look, and then decide, or sometimes dont even bother, just let it go straight through. My mum gets cranky also but hey I figure that if there is any news my DH will notify all that need to be notified! People mean well, but just don't think. I have a friend who is over due. I had a email from her on Tuesday, saying she was 5 days over, and I still haven't heard from her, but I'm not planning on hassling her. She said she would text me when her bundle arrives, so I'll wait til then. I know what it feels like!!!!