I dont think David meant anything bad by what he was saying - I just think he could have chose a better thread to vent this. It doesn't need to be a "bash the man thread", so I think its just best if everyone ignores what was said with respect to Belinda's problems.
What you are really after is support, and a few of the girls have given you excellent advice. I think what Michelle has suggested about a hotline is an excellent one to think about - I'm sure if you called your local hospital they would give you numbers over the phone immediately.
I think Tegans story was also excellent and reassuring for you. Lily is a beautiful bonny baby girl, so thats good testimony that 1 or 2 markers might not mean anything.
Big hugs to you Belinda - I hope things are all sorted out for you on Thursday.