Wow guys, THANKYOU so much for your honest and helpful answers....I was going to reply individually, but decided my poor brain couldnt cope so will give a general reply......
So heres what went down (as it were). I explained to DP that I really missed the intimacy of DTD, and that I really wanted us to get some nice intimate time behaind us before we start the whole, exhausted-with-no-sleep life of having a newborn. I made it into a bit of a joke, and tried to keep everything light and easy. I explained that i understood that he might not find me as attractive as usual, but that I LOVED my belly and it made me feel sensual and 'earth mothery' and that as such I really wanted to share that with him. I promised him that the baby woudlnt know or care, and that in fact an orgasm (mine not his) would be good for him (the baby) as I read somewhere that the uterine contractions are like a massage for the bub! I even said we could get some porn if he wanted (I am not usually much into it) as long as it was 'tasteful'.
Anyhoo...bless his dear dear heart on valentines day he went to the adult shop...apparently they dont sell porn so he went to the seedy rental place down the road and got what must be the WORST porn film of all time....it was so bad we were cracking up. He also got me my two fave things....smiths plain salted crisps and cookies n cream Icecream... who wants jewellry
Guys, thankyou again for your support. I WAS feeling a bit like Ms Weirdy, and felt a bit odd asking the question at all, but you have reassured me enormously.
THANKS!!!!!
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