Hi guys i'm here, bubs is still in place. I have been sleeping all afternoon sorry i missed you all.. I have a bit of an update for you all.

I spoke to my OB who said he couldn't see me today (but that was ok cos i am without car today) he wants me to ring him tomorrow with an update. So far have not lost any more fluid and cramping has slowed down a bit. It's still very much there, and quite painful but really irregular. I have antenatel classes tonight and will be seeing my favourite midwife so i will be having a big chat to her and hopefully she can be a bit pushier for me cos i really want an internal done to check that everything is going ok and my cervix is still closed.

I am a bit annoyed that the hosp and my ob are acting like its nothing serious but i am also trying to trust my instincts on this as well. I feel well prepared if anything was to happen quickly. I am thinking now it may have been my hind waters from the research i have been doing and what others have said, which apparently can mend themselves.

I am on leave now from work until my maternity leave kicks in next week so am still in my pj's at 5.30 at night.

Thankyou so much everyone for all your kind words and encouragement. As a FT mum and someone who has had so many miscarriages i have been very anxious all pregnancy. I was hoping everything would just be cruisy for the next few weeks.