KK - I don't think I could handle a trip away with my IL's right now so I really admire you! I hope that the trip helps a little in that it can provide a distraction or anything else that helps. How rude of people not to ask just because it's your 4th PG! We're all here for you though. I say some self indulgence is in order - a nice soppy movie, chocolate and a big box of tissues! It's what I intend to do once DH goes to work and leaves me in peace!