Learnt this trick from my hubby when he was looking after DD. On hot days if she got a bit messy after a poo he would take her outside and hose off the excess. I was horrified at first until I realised that DD was delighted. It cooled her off and got rid of the mess. Another tip is a blow up kiddies pool. You can both sit in it and have a great time and then water the garden afterwards.

We've all felt like this one time or another. Don't feel bad, venting is healthy.