hey creesmum

firstly you should not feel bad or daunted about telling your mum you are having a c/s...she has had her birth experiences and it is not for anyone to put their wishes or expectations upon you

perhaps just tell her how it is...and say you appreciate her desire for you to have a 'vaginal' birth but you have considered all options and have opted for a c/s...which is still birth

good luck

xx yogababy