Ha ha ha of the joy shey ladies? My DH calls it snorting and has much delight in telling everyone. We have been in separate beds for ages because he couldn go to leep for my 'snorting' and then after one of my midnight wee stops, I could never go back to sleep because of his snoring. At least now we are getting better sleeps.

I did read that it is the membranes softening in the back of your nose/throat (like your ligaments) and they hang a bit and rattle when you're relaxed in sleep ha ha