Ali, What is a PH? DH's twin is in the army in Townsville too...I wonder if he knows ur DH?? What does ur dh do? So he wouldn't be able to make it down for bday's not that he would be able to every time anyway.

Just wouldn't like it out of a respect thing, not that it's disrespectful to be born on ANZAC Day would obviously still celebrate his birthday every year but would just prefer not ANZAC day iykwim