I was induced at 7 days over, they normally wait until 10 days but my blood pressure had risen and Rhys hadn't engaged at all prior to me being induced. I had the gel, nothing happened for over 7 hours, I was due to get another dose the next day but things started on their own within the next couple of hours. Contractions started mildly and picked up fairly quickly. I only had a half dose of pethadine, an 81/2 hour labour and mild tearing so my experience was a good one compared to others. I guess ideally it is better to let things start on their own, even if the patience is eating you up! Good luck, I hope all goes well for you.