I know there are quite a few of us out there that have decided to wait until birth for the big gender surprise.

My big question to all of you is.... Did you ever had any concerns about the long wait?

Did you ever swing or hope for one way or the other?

Were you ever worried that you might end up ever so slightly disappointed at the outcome?

If you had gender dreams, what gender did you dream and what did you end up having?

Did you ever get sick of the constant whinging from other people about them wanting to know?

With names, did you ever want another bub just because you think both the chosen boy and girl name was just perfect?

Was there difficulty knowing what to buy for bub, especially if there was a sale on, especially since gender neutral items seem to be rather difficult to come by these days?

I know that in the end, as long as I get to hold my baby in my arms, I will be so happy, but these are just a couple of the questions bugging me. I was desperate for DS to be a girl until I had him so I know first hand that it doesn't impact on how you feel towards your lil ones but trying to get the rest of my brain to understand that is the hard part lol.