thread: Ladies - a question about shaving/waxing... and hygiene

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    on the coast
    102

    do you think the midwives cvare if its a bit 'hairy' down there??

    as i cant see a thing down there, and i dont think DH would like to try his handy work....havnt asked....

    what have you ladies done? Let it go....shaved, waxed ??

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2007
    Melbourne
    220

    darn the antibiotics eh!
    ive let mine go except for er trims.. no waxing, shaving or plucking for me as i just know id get ingrowns seeing as i cant see down there!
    i cant imagine the mids care bout how much pubic hair any woman has.. im sure they'd more likely remember the carpets that have been i dunno dyed funky colours?

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Professional Support Panel

    Nov 2005
    QLD
    3,068

    HI girls
    Pregnancy will increase your chance of getting thrush.
    The amount of hair has no bearing on thrush.
    Excessive use of soap will increase your chance of getting thrush.
    Tight pants or undies will increase your chance of getting thrush
    Nylon, lycra will increase your chance of getting thrush.
    Try to spend some time without undies and let the area breathe
    Midwives do not care or comment how much hair you have. We see everything from bald to platable.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Gold Coast, QLD
    936

    Leasha - I am usually quite susceptible to getting thrush but surprisingly havent had it since I fell pregnant.

    I found a product at the chemist called 'Vagisil' which is absolutely brilliant. It is PH balanced and soap free, maybe give that a go instead of soap. I know I definitely cant use soap "down there" - upsets the PH level.

    Yoghurt that has live cultures in it usually does the trick for me too

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    1,256

    Thanks for that Alan!!

    I have never had thrush but had heard its quite normal in pregnancy or over cleaning.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    Ontario, Canada
    1,624

    OK, I've got a somewhat related question - mind if I borrow the thread for a sec? How on EARTH do you guys tolerate the itchiness of shaving?!?! I've tried it, and it drove me around the bend! Waxing was a whole other disaster... Perhaps some of you remember the thread - but believe me, there was blood, sweat, and tears. And DH had to finish the job.
    Anyways, I like the idea of being neat and tidy, but I have yet to find a workable solution - what do you do?

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Sydney
    4,081

    I agree with Trillian water is all you need to freshen up the area. Soap of any kind will upset the balance and that's how the nasties grow.
    In my antenatal classes the midwife told us to be hairy and proud, LOL, because waxing and shaving will only increase the chance of cuts and ingrowns that can get infected, and possibly cause bigger issues that way. She said Middies just DON'T CARE if you're hairy or otherwise. Seen one, seen 'em all.
    Cricket, if you're really concerned about being tidy, how about just trimming with scissors?

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Dec 2007
    Victoria
    7,260

    Cricket - I use a remmington hair trimmer like one you get for shaving heads and stiff, just a "Lady" version lol It is ace! no itchiness, and it is short enough....then I just use hair removal cream to do my edges ....lol sounds like mowing a lawn...

    Leasha - Soap is not your friend. Do not use soap on the girls. Soap and mucous membranes do not agree (one of the reasons soap stings your eyes). Also, I reccomend cotton undies and none if you dont have to wear them....oh and yeah, the drying thing.
    Also, go to the chemist and get some Ural - the best invention ever

    OMG I cannot believe you are 36 weeks already!! So excited for you and Shel!!

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Gordon, vic
    35

    Hi Leasha,

    you poor thing, it must be so frustrating. I get thrush every time i have antibiotics. The thing that clears it up for me is Inner health tablets. They are just capsules with 25 billion good bacteria in them. I'm sure they would be safe to take whilst pregnant. Ask your obs or pharmacist - they will tell you if ok to take. Guaranteed it will clear up in a day or two!!

  10. #10

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
    12,662

    Cricket, you could get a men's beard and moustache trimmer/clippers - it will tame the jungle but not so short that there's any issue with ingrown hairs etc.
    They usually sell them near the hair-dryers in k-mart etc.

  11. #11
    smiles4u Guest

    Thumbs up

    Yeh, just as ALAN said

    ... my midwives said the same thing & just go without knickers when at home ... which was nice as it was a hot Summer when I was pregnant & I was happy to shed any clothing

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    1,413

    i would say get waxed.... you will never go back!!

  13. #13
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    i think pubic hair acts a little like nasal hair, keeps forgein things out!! its also there to prevent chaffing during DTD!! we have it for a reason!! i also like to be trim and neat too!!