*hugs* Leah, this is such a hard descion. I have quite a small pelvis and towards the end of my first pregnancy i had the most severe pelvis pain because she was fully engaged, i couldn't even walk properly and i was doubled over in constant pain, plus i had regular braxton hicks, it was a night mare. She turned out to be 9lb7oz, but i got her out, i admit with a little trouble but my midwife thinks it's because of how i was positioned. I have a lot of info here about birthing big babies, so if you want any, you know my email.