Hey I really need some advice here cause even the doctors are fighting bout this one!!!!

I went in hospital with contraction last sunday...they said it could just be prelabour I lost my plug whilst in hospital and had a 2 day stay I had to have an CT to measure my pelvis as Im really a tiny person they said my pelvis is too small for the baby to go through so at this point im booked in for a C/S next tuesday... my cervix is very soft and around, just in ALOT of pain the babies head is SO far down and Im still getting tightenings and some contractions but they are bearable... while I was in the hospital the midwives were sure id go into labour but nothing really ammounted to anything....

We went to the OB yesturday (thursday) i waited 2 hours! he saw ALL his patients before me even if they were booked in after me! so we went in and he gave me and mum this huge lecture about the fact I shouldnt of had a CT scan done and that measuring my pelvis has NO scientific proof that I cant push the baby out! he was SO rude to us and said that I shouldnt have a C/S done on tuesday as there is too much risk to the baby as I will only be 37 and a half wks that the baby could have severe breathing problems and more! he was SO damn rude that I really didnt say much he said that the other doctor who booked me in for a C/S will be getting and earful cause apparently we found out later my OB is head of the maternity in canberra hospital! He said if I wanted to I can go ahead with the C/S i can but he doesnt see why! Im having SO much pain like I have my period and if I walk or anything i have heaps of lightening pain which he said was just ligament pain and that it would be 10 times worse in the next pregnancy!

Later in the arvo DH called the lady who booked me in for a C/S(the doctor we saw while i was in hospital) and discussed what was said, she talked to my OB and apparently my OB only wanted me to think of all the options as he felt all my options had been taken away from me which was really a load of cr@p cause he sat there and bad mouthed this other doctor! the lady said I can book in later next friday if i still want to have a C/S but im not a doctor how do i know whats best for me and the baby??? Im just SO confused and tired of all this.... PLEASE I hope u wise women have SOME advice for me im going insane!!!!!