First labours are almost always traumatic and lengthy (we all have our own ideas of length)
Your body has done this before and therefore is "easier" on the body, not always easier in our own eyes but there is a definite difference between 1st and subsequent labours and births.
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I don't mean to be rude but that seems like an unwarranted statement. Many of the women here had straight forward first births and I would hope the first timers here aren't reading this as a guarantee of birth trauma to come.