The more I read and research the more I'm getting annoyed. I'm through a community midwife program and have had the same midwife from the start.

I feel like she basically said this is what will happen at next appt - but simply added the words if you want. Making a decision on the day would have been impulsive as she never told me what would be done, how it would be done, the risks, alternatives etc.

I've got a slightly moving "lump" under my left rib but don't know if it's bum or head. He was having a whale of a time last night but has been quiet since.

Off to do more reading again today! Try not to freak out too much