Oh I wish I could call on my village, But I don't have one LOL.

I have no family local, Mum is the closest & works 2 jobs. But she is still 40 odd minutes away.
I don't have any friends outside of Playgroup mums & I don't really feel like I could call on these women who have kids & homes of their own to maintain.
Paying someone isn't an option. We just don't have the money for that. Maybe a one off thing but not a regular thing.

With the washing I think I will stick to washing only Isla's nappies as often as I like to, which is every day. But will leave the clothes till the weekend.
It would be hanging them out thats more this issue wouldn't it? Isla's nappies can be hung & usually are hung inside on the clothes horse that I don't need to bend & stretch (reach for the stars, there goes Jupiter, here comes Mars LOL sorry) to do that. I tend to put the basket o the table so everything is at the right hight.

I told DH I need to go see this physio. He kinda rolled his eyes. I think my problem is not that he doesn't care or expects me to just suck it up. Its more that I don't complain enough so here I am getting on with things in pain but saying nothing & suddenly I am telling him I need to see a physio!

I might ring my mum first. She does remedial massage. maybe she can do something to help? Even if its watch the little ones while I go into my appointment with the physio LOL.

I do kinda feel like I should just accept its part of pregnancy. this is my 4th, what else was I expecting? I think DH might think the same as he does make comments like it was all my own doing so I just have to face the pains that come with it.

We both wanted a 4th but I probably pushed it on him more so.