I'm sorry that you were listened to with the support that you needed. I too would be quite worried and would want some real reassurances and to not feel fobbed off. Is there a way for you to call your OB office directly?

Things to tell them are: high BP, blurry vision, reduced fetal movement, and strong pains across your lower back and abdomen. Tell them that it just doesnt feel right and that you are quite concerned. Tell them that you want to be monitored. You do not need to ask for permission to be assessed, you just tell them to do it. (if you are finding that hard...as i would too...get your DH to do it for you).