Hun, Obs are medical experts in the field of complex births. A possibly large baby is not a birth complication.
It's pretty crap in my books to start waving the 'big baby' card around. He's not even your ob.

No one thinks a c/sect makes you any less of a mother, and there is NOTHING to say you can't have this baby through your vagina.
:yeahthat: Lulu you said it perfectly.

It depends where your heart is really - but if I were you I would push for a natural birth, because if the baby is too big (which is quite rare I'm told), I think its better to have at least laboured and lost, than never to have laboured at all.
what a thing to have thrown at you now. I can't say it any better than Lulu & Mel. It is very unusual for you to grow a baby too big for you to birth. That's not to say it doesn't happen, but those cases are the exception.

I chose to have my VBAC because I believed it was safer, and because the recovery time was much, much quicker.

As for whether to try for a natural birth or accept it & have the CS... you could try for a vaginal birth , accepting that sometimes there is a need for a CS... don't pressure yourself to have a VB, just try it & see what happens.
Ultimately though it has to be whatever you feel comfortable with
Good luck