Hey What a thing to be dealt !!

FWIW, my DH is 6 foot 7, and I'm about 5 foot 5 - so there is a similar height difference between us and you guys. Just because they are tall doesn't mean you will have a big baby! I had a wellbeing scan done at 41 + 6 with Miss M, and they "estimated" her to be around 10 pounds, 4 oz with a HUGE tummy circumference (40cm).

She came out via c-section at 42 weeks (not because of size issues, but because the placenta and cord were deteriorating) at 8 pounds, 11.5 oz.

I'm trying for a VBA2C now - going through an independent birth centre, and its a struggle to find any support unless you go with independent midwives (which aren't always available).

It depends where your heart is really - but if I were you I would push for a natural birth, because if the baby is too big (which is quite rare I'm told), I think its better to have at least laboured and lost, than never to have laboured at all.

And the size of the baby is usually a little bit bigger on average than what you were at birth - not usually the father's size. I've read that its usually a pound difference between your birth weight as a baby and what your baby will be (dunno how accurate this is, I was 7 pounds 7 born, DH was 7 pound 14, DS was 8 pound 2.5 oz)

I dunno, I'd be inclined to give it a go at least, maybe because I know the struggle to obtain a VBAC?

Good luck with whichever you decide though