*massive hugs*

remember, your cervix doesn't just dilate it does lots of other things too, it softens, and thins, and moves. And bub does stuff too, they move into a better position, and that is just the stuff we know! there is so many other bits going on too, both yours and bub's bodies go through changes in preparation!

so please don't be deflated. I know it is frustrating. but it will happen!!