Lisa,
I was induced, at 11d over, but she was definitly not overcooked - not wrinkly at all, and there was still heaps of fluid on the scan. Just OP so she wouldn't come out by herself.

My sister was overdue with both, and induced with both. The first was really because of blood pressure, but the second was quite late.

I think if you have a scan at 41weeks and still have plenty of amniotic fluid around the baby, there are no issues and you are still feeling OK, you might be able to get them to wait until 14d over, but it will totally depend on your hospital/OB etc.

Good luck, I'm hoping I wont need to be induced this time either.

Fi