Ryn, from what you just described, I'd be calling the hospital/birth centre again.

I'm no midwife, but when things got to that stage for me (blood, clots etc) and called the hospital they told me I was ready to go! And after 72 hours I was more than willing to take their word for it - and yes, she was a girl!

Oooooh too exciting, let us know what's happening!

Good luck!