All i can say is TOYS...lmao invest in some senusal toys for the man, it takes alot of pressure off feeling like we should be pleasuring our men! While hubby and i did try it once or twice throughout our entire pregnancy i didn't feel comfy due to previous m/c's i just didnt want to do anything to disrupt the pregnancy - not that sex would but hey i got paranoid...

When hubby said anything about wanting some i would just say go play with senso I was a cruel woman i tell ya