This is what I am stressing about - big time. I have been told a girl but I keep thinking that maybe they have got it wrong. I already have two boys so was pretty desperate to have a girl and am finding it hard to believe that i may have that. I keep having thoughts of giving birth and seeing a willy - or the ob or midwife yelling "its a boy." But when I start thinking this way I try to tell myself to stop being silly and that it is a girl! Friends of my parents had it happen where they were told it was a girl and were desperate to have a boy and then when she gave birth it was the boy they wanted so for them it worked out perfectly.
Im also in the same boat. I have a son and am pregnant with our second maybe last child?? and we were told by the sonographer at the 20 week scan that he thought it was a girl. He looked twice and said "i think its a girl" both times. I wouldnt mind if we had another boy but we did 'try' for a girl so we are hoping pink. Some days im certain the sonographer was right and others i also imagine the midwife saying its a boy. Friends of ours just had their bub and they were told a girl and had a boy!! 9 weeks and ill know for sure!
OMG - this is stressing me out!!! I wish I could have another scan just to confirm. Before my scan even started the sonographer said that she can never be 100% sure if the baby is a boy or a girl and then we had her write down what she thought the sex was on a piece of paper and we looked at it later. The note said "I cant be 100% sure but I think it is a girl." So although she said she cant be 100% sure I am taking that as her covering her butt a little bit (as she said she couldnt be sure for a boy or girl prior to even starting the scan) and I am hoping she was right. In my mind I tell myself that she must have been pretty certain as she knew how desperate we are for a girl and if she had any doubts she wouldnt have said either way. Without sounding like I am going on (which I know I am) I am going to take it that she was right in saying the baby is a girl and just try and hold onto that thought.
I just want to stop thinking about it. I knew I shouldnt have read this thread LOL!!!
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