Puggy

First of all can I say I am so sorry for your previous losses but also say that I am very excited for you that you are about to meet your baby.

As you can see from my signature, I too have had a very difficult past and I can totally understand the fellings that you are having and the fact that you are considering an induction.

I had an induction with my son Harrison, he was high and posterior. (Please know that he didn't pass away during labour and that the reason for his passing was medical.) . Of course I have nothing to compare it to, but I have to be honest, I felt that the induction wasn't that bad. I didn't end up needing a c-section and didn't tear. It was the emotional pain that hurt so bad.

I don't think your Ob can know however if your baby is ready, I think that the only person who knows that is your bub.

I too am contemplating an induction this time, which may be criticised by some, but it is an intensely private decision and you are doing the right thing becoming more informed about it. Know the pros, the cons, the risks and the advantages both physical and emotional.

The thing I guess I am trying to say is that I think your fears and concerns are valid, I know how you must be feeling and whatever you decide, I am sure you will do what is right for you and your bub.

I look forward to reading your birth announcement.

Lv Spring