Puggy, have you thought about doing a kick chart at all, or even trying to get a hold of a doppler? being able to write down how much baby moves and hearing a HB will be a huge comfort to you in between Dr's appointments. And do you have an answering machine or caller ID? if so screen your calls - I know family can be well meaning when they call the see how you're going but all it does is drive us batty LOL. You could even leave a message to say tht everything is OK and that when something does happen you will call them. Plus there is nothing worse than trying to rest in the last few weeks/days only to be interrupted by phone calls.

Having a Dr who isn't into unnessesary intervention will work in your favour too - he will be able to help you cope with your anxiety and not make you feel pressured into something you don't really want.

Good Luck