Danni I wouldn't be too concerned it is very unfortunate but true that people in our society just can't help themselves! They have to be insulting (and alsways witha smile on their faces too) to make themselves feel better! I had a chick who was soooo nasty and had to tell me everytime she saw me (pretty much at least once a week) how big i was and oh i reckon they are wrong there has to be two in there! Anyway then she fell PG and at first raved about how she was not going to be big and had teh wieghts of her previous PG's so that she could stay under that. Well in the end she wa on the rather large side and never once did i comment, but others did and were nasty to her and she had the hide to whinge to ME about how mean people were being!!!! I just said yeah i really don't think other women realise how mean they are being until it happesns to them and left it at that! Mind you i had a terrible PG last time round and didn't mind talking about it. IF i was asked i would say i felt like ****! Anyway this same girl raved about how great she felt through ehr PG to me and its only now that i am expecting again that she has said that she couldnt do it again as she found her last PG painful and so on! Man i can't handle people who for one lie to you and two forget how nasty they were to you.
I have been blessed with a really good PG this time ( well for most of it of course we all have some off days).
But the fact is we all carry differently, and can be different in each PG plus it depends on the amount of fluid where and how the baby is sitting and a whole heap of things.
Pregnancy is beautiful and it should be enjoyed as much as possible. We are creating life!!! If anyone says anything to me with this PG about being big they will simply be told yep and I am loving it thank you!!!
Sorry for the vent I guess we jsut all get a little sick of it!




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