People make all sorts of thoughtless comments. Someone said a similar thing to me, 'wow you're small! I hope nothing's wrong!'
So while I knew in my head that things were okay, I also was uneasy.
Here are some reasons why people carry small. I'm sure people will be along to add more.
- you're tall (more space for baby to fit without pushing outwards)
- you or your partner are small (so the baby might just be small like it's parents!)
- you're carrying bub more against your spine
- it's your first baby (stomach muscles hold everything in very efficiently)
- you were very slim/underweight to start with
Anyway - the bub where people commented on my size - ended up being 9.4lb! That's not small really. I just was slim, and it was my first baby.
I know it's easy to worry, but remember that if your bub was too far behind dates (mine would be behind, then have a growth spurt where I felt extra tired and then would measure ahead of dates), then your ob would have said something. Take comfort in the thought that pregnant women everywhere get these silly comments.




People make all sorts of thoughtless comments. Someone said a similar thing to me, 'wow you're small! I hope nothing's wrong!'
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