*big hugs* N

You are going through a lot of other stuff at the moment, so it is understandable that bub as sort of taken a back seat - you know deep down your body is still doing everything it should to keep bub safe and warm and good, so your focusing your energy on everything else.

I'm booked in at a hospital 280km away because I didn't like my closest option, infact, I didn't like my closest option so much that I even decided against my any options that were closer than 280km away. You need to go with who and what you makes you feel the most comfortable, because for you to have the best chance at a birth you want you need to be in a place where you feel safe, and trust the people around you. In saying that, the sooner you make that decision and book somewhere the better... us midwives frown on people who book in after 20 weeks =P we like to know what to expect =P

now back to your original post =P at about your gestation yes bubs are active!! as their bones are hardening so you feel them more, and they still have a fair bit of room, in another month or so they still move around the same, but cause room becomes limited (uterus is still growing, but less free space ITMS) it doesnt feel so...crazy and star jumpish!